so im dating this guy and i like him a lot and he makes me smile but even he comes with a lot of drama for example my friend likes him and people keep making rumors up. should i keep the relation ship going? or should i end it?
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In the simplest way of looking at it, do whichever is going to lead you to be happier. If being with the guy brings you more joy than the baggage and the rumors take away, then the relationship is a positive aspect of your life and you should keep it. If everything that comes with dating the guy makes you more unhappy than the guy makes you happy, move on.
In reality, you have to consider the other factors. Are you risking losing your friends if you keep it going? Are the rumors going to ruin/give you a reputation? Could you ever really see this relationship lasting... say until after high school? There are a lot of factors that should play into this, and it requires more info than whats included in your question. If you think of all the pros and cons of each option though, I'm sure you'll get a pretty clear cut answer.1