I'm not even necessarily upset with him for asking, but when I politely say no, he says sorry for asking and disappears. After days of texting, great conversations, and getting along pretty well. It just doesn't make sense to me to waste that much time talking to me, and then stop only because I'm not okay with sending out nude pictures of myself.
I'm not going to apologize for drawing the line there, but I don't hold it against him for asking either, and even told him that, so why is it so hard to just accept that it's not going to happen but we can still hang out, date or whatever, and it's fine? Especially when it seemed like he genuinely liked me - or maybe I'm a bad judge and he only wanted pictures all along? Either way it sucks.
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What is the obsession with nudes these days? I hate it when a guy asks me for nudes. It isn't really a subtle 'no', it is more of a 'hell no, you dumb a$&'.2