So this guy I've liked for nearly 2 years has finally ended his 11 year on and off again relationship- this girl really did a number on him, plus she holds the children they share together over his head. I understand that he is not ready for a commitment- he says he likes me and has set some ground rules.
He wants to be friends first before anything can happen, and that he just wants it to happen if it happens- is this basically a kiss of death- telling me that I need to go and find someone else.
We have maybe had a couple of conversations, so no we really don't know each other. What good advice can you give me- should I just cut my losses and move on from this. I don't want to, but I also don't want to be strung along.
He is normally the type of guy that tells the truth.
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Stay friends, he's not ready for another relationship. Wait until you notice he's sending signs that he may like you.1