Ok I'll catch you up... I have a stupid crush on a older guy that is realistically unavailable. He flirts with me at work at first but then i started to initiate conversation. Im gonna stop because it's not like it's gonna go anywhere. he's successful, older a little immature.. but ultimately unavailable. Reasonablly i should stay focused on work and stay away from him. But then i feel like besides work I'm. just very bored with life. I want to go out on dates (with him lol). My close friends started dating and so I joined an online dating website. The guys are ok.. no where as successful as my crush I mean they are unemployed or have minimal wage jobs.. idk. Not feeling it. So should i stick it out? I'm also nervous that other co-workers might come across it at some point.. which could be awkward. Should I delete it and pretend none of it happened?
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My sister is in your age range. Really busy between her job and other activities and didn't really have a dating life to speak of. One of her friends got her a Match. com profile for her birthday. She was incredibly offended at the time, but figured if she was gonna have it she might as well use it. Long story short, she went on a few dates, nothing serious, stopped using it for a while, rejoined, dated some more, met a guy she is crazy about, and eight months later is now engaged. So yeah, I would say dating sites work, you just have to not be self conscious about it, sort through all the wierdos, and find that right guy for you1
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