I recently got broken up with and she said that there was no spark or the spark faded away. We only dated for two months but I was really into her. Now I was under the impression that this "spark" had to do with sexual desire or attractiveness but she said neither or those was the problem. What else could it be?
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Sometimes its just a matter of compatibility. The difference between guys and girls is what we both consider the "spark." Since guys are more visual it usually means sexual desire/attractiveness. For girls its more a feeling we get when we're with you. It's so hard to explain but it's a mix of chemistry, love, companionship and sexual desire all wrapped in one. When a woman feels like she's getting the best of all worlds with a guy we call it the "spark." Seems like there may have been one of those things missing with your relationship. I know it must be tough so I wish you the best of luck!0
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