"spark" usually means that a woman is flighty and demands constant stimulation and excitement, yet doesn't think she's obligated to offer you anything substantial.
my guess, from what you describe and from my experience with girls like this, is that you were stimulating and exciting for a few months. but then she gradually thought you were boring. not because you _are_ boring, but because she's easily bored. she's shallow and has nothing to offer, and she believes it's your duty to entertain her. she believes that relationships should be perpetually thrilling, and she's afraid of commitment.
she probably does this every 2-4 months, no matter who she's dating.
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Sometimes its just a matter of compatibility. The difference between guys and girls is what we both consider the "spark." Since guys are more visual it usually means sexual desire/attractiveness. For girls its more a feeling we get when we're with you. It's so hard to explain but it's a mix of chemistry, love, companionship and sexual desire all wrapped in one. When a woman feels like she's getting the best of all worlds with a guy we call it the "spark." Seems like there may have been one of those things missing with your relationship. I know it must be tough so I wish you the best of luck!
the spark is actually something that guys and girls use as an easy way to get out of a reliniship I'm sorry to say this but she's just saying this because she doesn't want to be with you and that's her easy way out.
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