A lot of people use the word "love" now as an excuse to get what they want... but how can I really avoid getting use?
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You can't avoid it entirely - there is always the risk of being used.
But you can stack the odds greatly in your favor by not having sex outside of relationships. Like every girl, you will have far more guys who just want to bang you than guys who want a relationship with you. That's normal, and it's because guys can separate sex from love and don't need an emotional connection with a girl in order to want sex from her. Guys will want to bang FAR more girls than just those they are interested in having relationships with.
But most guys won't enter into a relationship just to get sex - that's too much work and hassle if they don't actually want the relationship. So, if a guy is willing to be in an official, committed relationship with you, the chances of you being used just for sex go way, WAY down compared to girls who are willing to have sex outside of relationships.0