I'm 20 and I was talking to a 23 year old I met out. He was kind, funny, nice and we really hit it off.
Our first date went amazingly and after talking for a few more weeks I started to get feelings for him. We arranged a second date and he said he couldn't wait to meet me...
I was quite excited so told a friend... and worriedly she told me she thought she knew his girlfriend. I asked him straight and he point blank denied it, saying 'We did use to go out, but things weren't going to well so just I'm seeing her, but that's as far as it goes' & (although immature) his Facebook status was 'Single'. I didn't mind, as dating around isn't uncommon.
I believed him, we had a great connection and our second date is tomorrow. But, after doing a bit of research (I'm a little wary about this situation) I found that most of her Twitter posts are about him spending time with her & her family, and in one she does call him her 'boyfriend' & a few of her instagram photos of them as a couple.
I do really like this guy & want to believe him. Either she hasn't gotten over it, or he's a cheat. I want to ask him about it, but I'm not sure how to bring it up without sounding like I'm interrogating him?
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I don't know. Sounds like he's playing the field. If he's hanging out with her family, it seems like more than just seeing her. Don't get too emotionally attached to this guy. It's only been one date. If it starts to get serious, then I would ask him about her. If you don't believe him, then that tells you a lot. Trust is very important in a relationship.0