I had a random thought today that ended up turning into a major topic IMO.
Let's say a girl rejects you (verbally says something), and you HONESTLY do not mind being JUST friends. After all, she's fun to talk to and you can talk to other attractive girls
If you would like to have another possible second chance with her (assuming the reason she doesn't wanna date isint extreme and something you did), should you show her you moved on? Or just continue talking to her and see if she changes her mind?
By showing her you moved on, i mean by bringing up "Friend topics" such as "yeah i met this girl the other day and she's awesome" or "Do you think my style is ok for getting girls?"
Probable out comes: she gets jealous and pushes through whatever barrier and decides to date you (good), or she goes along with it and gives you the advice you need as if you're just platonic friends (bad)
By continue talking to her as normal, i mean talking to other girls (duh, i never said to wait on this girl), but still continuing to hang with and casually talk to this girl and SEE IF SHE brings up the idea of you two dating? Basically you show her how awesome you are and dont pressure about dating
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