My boyfriend of 7 months wants me to take birth control because his parents think I'm irresponsible for not already taking something. I'm almost 18 (he's 16) and I feel that I am responsible enough to make my own decisions. He has always respected my decision to not be taking anything but now out of nowhere he wants me taking something or our relationship is done I've ruled out any sort of pill or UDI sort of thing because I'm not okay with anything unnatural. We decided that a diaphragm would be ok. But every time I think of us going to the bedroom and having to stop what we are doing so I can put the thing I know it would kill my mood. I don't know what to do anymore. I want to keep the relationship going and I know relationships are about compromise but I can't see myself enjoying sex if that's what it's going to take to make him and his parents happy.
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I'm against birthcontrol. I agree it's freaking unnatural and I feel it would mess up my body and period. It's your body, if you don't want to do it, DON'T!
Do not do something you don't want to do to keep a boy. If he's a good boyfriend he'll respect your decision.0