I'm dating a guy i really like. We've been on about 9 dates. Last week he said he can't hangout on the weekend cause he's working late. But he can hangout with me on Wed night after work and he ends work at 11! I said i cant. Then i find out he had time on the weekend , on saturday, to hangout with his female friend ALL DAY. They spent the whole day together! she's not even that close of a friend, she's more of a friends with benefits i think. Is it wrong that I'm really upset? :(((((He has time to hangout with her, but not with me...
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I think there are alof of red flags here. FIrst off he's not spending weekends with you- Im assuming he hasn't done it at all? Secondly, he wants to "hang out" at 11 at night? Thirdly, he's spending weekends hanging with a girl you think is his FWB?
Im sort of confused because first you said youve been on 9 dates with him- I think there's a difference between dates and hanging out.
Or is he just a friend that you casually get with?
Either way Id be cautious.1