A friend of mine went up to the guy i liked and supposedly asked him a series of questions. as this guy had previously liked me at one stage, she asked him questions such as.
- do you like her?
- have you liked her?
- do you see yourself and her moving past the friendship zone at all?
After telling her the answers, he told her not to tell me, and she hasn't im not sure i see how its fair, but does any one know what this could mean?
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Been in a similar situation. One of my friends bumped into a girl I had a thing for, she recognized him and started asking about me, claimed that we both went on "dates" (his words, not mine), implied to him that she wanted to see me again, and told him not to tell me. The main difference here that I didn't ask him to talk to her, it just sort of happened randomly. Regardless, it motivated me to start pursuing her again.
Then a couple weeks later I go on a "date" with her again, but according to her she didn't think of it as a "date", and nothing came out of it in the end. From what I can tell, he either stretched the truth, or she caught on and second guessed himself. I'm still on good terms with her, but its unlikely that we'll ever be more than that now.
Bottom line, when friends get involved in this sort of stuff, nothing good comes from it.0