I'm so unsure about this guy. We've met up 4 times. He texts me good morning all the time and we text for a long time. On the third date we went out to eat and I met his mom but it was awkward because I was clearly back at house house to have sex (second time) On the fourth date I went to his house just to watch a movie and fool around basically.
Cons are he lives 30 min driving away and I don't have a car so it takes a little over an hour by bus but he has given me a ride home numerous times which I feel guilty about. He has a college gf who he broke up with like 6 months ago and lives far away but I feel like she might still be somewhat of a presence in his life. Sometimes his jokes are god awful. And weird. He has dry humour that is sometimes hard to pick up on. He also loves to joke that I'm a player and it really has gotten on my nerves after a while. Like maybe HE'S the player. I'm pissed that I didn't play this out correctly. Maybe the first time I met his MOM it should of been when I was actually his gf. Is it doomed now? I slept over his house last night. Fourth date. Was that too soon? I don't really like formal dating but his living with his parents things throws me. He does have a good job and is saving to move out (he's 24) He's also my physical ideal and he does keep wanting to meet up. I've met up with him every other day since the first date a week ago.
I'm also annoyed about my position in life. I'm working at Starbucks for a year which I hate and then studying nursing next year. I just moved to the country so I have no friends. I'm glad for his company. But I also feel like a 21 year old loser with no car and no friends.
I also feel slightly alone still because I'm afraid he is using me for sex.
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Stop being so paranoid, if you were just a booty call he wouldn't have introduced you to his mum. He drives you home which means he cares, he texts which means he pushes other things in his to give you time... Stop feeling guilty, 21 isn't too old. People are in worse shape at 30s too but that doesn't mean they are not good people or hardworking it simply means that they still have a struggle ahead of them
having a car doesn't define you, its nothing but a set of wheels which you can buy when you have money, regarding friends well u just moved to the place so obvsly you dont have connections so give it some time ull eventually get friends there
Guys love to brag lol its something we can't give up so take his PLAYER announcements with loads of salts, no guy is foolish enough to call himself a player in front of the girl he is playing0
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