So I'm a pretty chunky girl. Not obese, but a long ways from skinny. Anyways, I've been trying to get in shape so I go to the gym three days a week (I'd go more but I'm very busy) and there is a man there who has been very flirtatious with me for the past few months and has even asked me out.
I just find it very hard to believe that out of all the beautiful, fit women at the gym he is choosing to focus his time on me. Keep in mind that this is a very, very fit man so fitness is something that is obviously important to him. So I'm suspicious.
Could he legitimately like me or does he think that fat girls have low self esteem so I'll be easier to hook up with?
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If he's had his sights on your for that long then I'd say he's genuine. And it's totally possible for people to like the exact opposites of them both mentally and physically. I see tall people with short people, smart people with not so smart people, so why not a fit person with a not fit person?0