I'm trying to handle a girl who I think is pretty shy. I got her number a few months (about 3ish, I think) ago. Before I got it, we would talk pretty frequently, and she would almost always give me constant eye contact and laugh at all of my jokes. She seemed so interested to talk to me.
Whenever I text her, it is a hit or a miss. Either she texts me back for 2-3 hours (we talk about interesting things, mutual interests, and she asks a ton of questions and seems interested in my life. She is also comfortable answering my questions). On the other hand, sometimes I get no reply. I have noticed that I usually don't get any reply on nights she has work (which I can predict pretty well - but not perfectly). This trend has been going on since the first time I texted her.
I tried to hang out with her twice. The first time was a yes, we had lunch, but I didn't really come off as interested. But, we talked and laughed for 3 hours. The second time I asked her to the movies, but I got a maybe and then a no because she was going on vacation (this was true, she told me all about it when she got back).
Is she interested? I think it may just be her personality to not reply, as she is shy, but it is still alarming to me. What do you guys think, what should I do next?
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In my opinion I think she may like you as a friend but not like you in the way that you'd like her to be. Which can really suck. She sounds like she likes to talk to you but she wants to keep her options open. Don't stress it too much. Just take things slow and then when you feel the right moment come out and tell her how you feel like perhaps on one of those dates. and make it a nice date. Or maybe what you are talking about isn't really getting her connected to you as much. so, try bringing up different subjects :)0