Alright, so this guy and I begin talking, getting to know each other. Within a couple of weeks he asks me on a date. Our date was a typical nervous date, but it ended with a passionate kiss. We continue to talk everyday for about 2 months. At the one month mark of talking he would text me Good Morning Beautiful, and personalize a Good Night text to me with a kissing emoji... it felt like we were exclusive since we would catch up on each other's day, and be flirty. Unfortunately the distance between our cities/travels limited us from seeing each other as much as we wanted. Suddenly he STOPPED talking to me for a little over 2 weeks... then texts me casually to see how I am and would like to see me before I leave for my long trek abroad. Things didn't fall through, and we ended not ever seeing each other. SUDDENLY a year later, he contacts me via message to tell me he has been thinking of me, and hopes I am well. MEN! Why the confusing messages, why do you stop talking to a women and suddenly want the attention again? Thanks for the input!
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I think I'm similar to this guy. In terms of backing off them coming back on to a girl.
There were a few women in this year who I really was interested in and who seemed pretty interested in me. I just saw a reason for it not working out. In this case, maybe he was really excited to see you before you left for your abroad trip and perhaps you said something that made him doubt your relationship so he backed off?
Bottom line, I really did like these girls but I saw a reason for it not working out at the time.
Anyways, with these women I made sure I have their Facebook and number just in case we wanted to meet back up in the future. In this case, he probably did the same, which is why he messaged you now.
Maybe he sees now as a good opportunity for a relationship, in terms of where he is in life... be that money, sexual availability, etc.0