Background about me and her:
We've know each other for 3 years, but the last year we've become really close and basically best friends. We talk about everything, boys, girls etc. and this year we started cuddling a lot, and this summer we've seen each other a lot more. She's starting to kiss me everywhere but the mouth and get physical. When I started to learn her to know, she was nowhere near that stage, very shy conservative girl, who wouldn't even hold hands unless if they were in a relationship. I'm the only friend she cuddles with. She knows my friend with benefit whom I've had this relationship with for a year now.
Lately she's been throwing herself over me when she can, whether it be hug, kiss on before mentioned or just cuddling which is nice. We saw 3 movies the other day, and when we finished, she was complaining about her back, so I gave her massage. After that, I teased her (like I do to every female friends I know, and she knows it), and said she couldnt score/seduce me. She took up the challenge and started to bite and lick my ear (She knows its my weak spot, since our mutual female friends have had a tendency to do it, just to annoy me, but she has always thought it was disgusting). When she stopped she asked if I was seduced, and I was like:"no but you are welcome to continue" so she did it more intense. In the heat, I grabbed her head and just as she was, in a teasing fashion, complaining with a "hey", I would kiss her and we snugged very passionately, When we stopped, she would say that she never do that with friends, and I would just repeat. Worth noting that even though I took the first step, she would be dominating the kiss.
I told her for fun (which I always do) that I fell for her, and she said while hiding her face "dont", and cuddled into me. When she left she kissed me on the cheek. Today she is seeing her date (not a couple), and she says she wants to dump him but likes him.
Nothing has changed, but is she into me?
Also she said it's not going to work out with her and her boy.
Yet she's halfly ignoring me, but when she writes its like.. a lot in one text.
Wtb girl behaviour translation -.-'
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Definitely into you but to shy and afraid of rejection and of ruining what you had as just friends. Also probably scared of what would happen if you got together and broke up. Your best bet would be to just flat out ask her if she likes you and express that you like her. Then if she reveals that she likes you talk about all of the fears i just talked about. Even if its hard its your best bet before she thinks your not interested in her (if you are).1