My boyfriends parents want him to break up with me because they feel that I would screw up his life because I'm not using any form of birth control. We use condoms always but his parents feel that is not enough. They think that if I were to get pregnant i would make him suffer. Adoption would be my number one option and he knows that. But his parents keep putting it in his head that I'm not good for him and that he should break up with me. He has now put our relationship on the line saying that if I don't get birth control he will break up with me. Is he doing this because of what his parents are making him think?
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I wouldn't break up with them just because my parents didn't like the fact I was with them, but I would listen to my parents. Sometimes they actually have something of value to say. You really should be on birth control, unless you can't be for some medical reason. Unfortunately birth control for guys is still not available so it does fall on the woman. Your boyfriend is right for making some demands to protect his future. Even if you wouldn't mess up his life, so many guys have had their lives messed up by women that made similar claims to yours, that it is only reasonable that he want you on birth control, until he is ready to start a family.0