She wants me there with her to keep her company. But when I'm with her, her mind is just not there. When I try to talk to her, I only get the shortest answers possible.
I got frustrated a few times and said to her, "Do you want me to leave you alone, it seems like I'm bothering you."
I have tried disappearing for a few days and she would message me wondering if I'm ok. Then when I try to talk to her, I get little feedback from her.
Once she said to me, "If you leave now then I will never take you back."
But what's the point when I just sit there like a rock? What does it mean?
She's not like this when she's around her female friends.
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because she either thinks you're actually a rock, or because she's controlling and insecure. she just needs you to be 'there' to suppress her own feeling of loneliness, but judging by the way she treats you, she's not even that into you.. threatening to leave or to dump someone if they don't 'follow' some random 'orders', is one of the many red flags.
if you want a 100% answer, ask her: 'why aren't you even talking to me, and yet you want me to stay?' - then you'll know for sure.2