My friend got me this app Tinder, and since then it's been kind of crazy. I was kind of skeptical because I thought most people would just be looking to hook up, and plenty of them are, but there are also some genuine, decent guys on there. So I thought, why not go on some dates and see how it goes? It's way overwhelming though. I think I agreed to too much. I've gone on a date every night this week so far, and have one today and tomorrow too. When I'm used to just focusing on one person. Probably bit off more than I can chew to be honest, so after this week I'm just going to go with the one I really like. It's really interesting to see how different guys are though, and get a better sense of what I want.
Have you ever gone on dates with multiple people at the same time?
What Guys Said 2
Honestly, I don't think I'm really capable of doing that (dating more than one person at a time). I don't really date people unless I am already into them and liking them/beginning to like them, and I definitely could not like more than one person at a time. I'm not sure if that's "normal" or not, but that's how it is for me... I like someone and my brain kinda just shuts down toward other women.
Anyway, for your case why don't you just slow down a bit? If it feels like it's not working well for you at this pace, then maybe just focus on one person that you actually like (assuming there is one that you like).0
Keep doing it until you find someone you really like and then stick with them.0
What Girls Said 1
I am very traditional, maybe even conservative when it comes to dating. I don't date with people if I don't like them. To me, it is nearly impossible to like too many people at the same time so I date with one person, not more.
If it doesn't go anywhere, or something happens, that is it. I am not afraid of being alone or finding the right one.
I prefer to be direct and idealistic when it comes to dating. It's not race or competition for me. I have waited for the right person, and I can wait more. No problem.0
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