So I've chatted with this girl for weeks, then during one of our late night whatsapp chatting session, she revealed to me she actually found guy A and guy B not bad but she didn't want to tell me why they are not bad. So perhaps on impulse after knowing this, I let her know I like her as well, her replies were that she's sorry and she shouldn't have told me that, and for us things are still early and we will let it be. So for next few days everything is like back to normal, we still talk normally and stuff.
Then days later i asked her for tea after lessons, she said yes at first but then later on she told me she had to collect something which closes shortly after her lesson ended. I immediately thought that it was an excuse but turns out to be I'm horribly wrong, she sent me this exact message "oh well, go another day." which i totally interpreted as we will go for tea another day but it was actually she'll go collect another day but i already told her it's alright we can visit that cafe on another day, and later on she gave me another chance to visit the cafe with her by asking me am I hungry or not and want to go, but then i turned her down again -.-
So now last night I asked her out, but she avoided that question by replying to another of my message first, and i asked again this morning, then she asked me for the location and say will reply later. I understand her classes end very late today though, what should i do :( ?
After she avoided the question last night, we went to the same club activity and interacted as usual, but i just couldn't ask her in person :(
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Be patient. It sounds like she wants to give you chance to see if things could go romantically or not but there is a scheduling conflict. You might try asking her when she if free first then ask her out for that time. That way you both will know nothing is going to interfere and it will take stress off having to say no when you really dont want to.0