I have this guy that I've been talking to you for a while to schedule is really hectic is going to school working and lately we haven't hung out that often and then when he finally text me and then he stops texting back. Has he lost interest or is he still interested or just and tired
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Give him a day or so and then ask him about it. Right now, I'm in a spot where I can definitely see both sides of the situation. My guy is busy for 12 hours a day, and half the time he's available, I'm not. Add in some serious distance between us, and you have a recipe for not much "us time". However, we both make it a priority to talk to each other every day, even if it's just 10 minutes at midnight. That's just what works for us.
On the other hand, my best friend and I can go a couple days without saying much at all. It's not that we don't care about each other, it's just how we are. She knows I'm an introvert and can keep to myself if she's busy for a day or two, and sometimes that's just what happens. We both know that we'll talk again soon.
What really matters is that you and this guy are both happy with how much you talk and see each other. Right now, at least 1 of you isn't happy. Talk to him and see if y'all can work out a way to talk a bit more. Even if you can't, at least he knows how you feel about it, and you'll get a better idea of whether he's interested or not.1