no u shouldnt. we always can make choices in our lives to determine our future. choosing a bad path is never right. yes there are girls out there who are attracted to bad guys, but in the end they have their hearts broken. u wouldn't want to be a bad guy who break a good girl's heart because of your previous experience with girls who didn't appreciate u right? it isn't fair to the good girl because she didn't do u any wrong.
i am a boring person because i dont do things that bad girls do, i know some guys go for those girls but i still want to be a good person. :)
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I don't think you should be a jerk you should just try and be more confident. girls aren't attracted to "jerks" its the confidence, the mystery that comes with them. Sometimes its the challenge that makes girls go for jerks, the whole "I'll be the one to change him" stuff. And no matter how much we deny it looks are apart of it too you can be the nicest person ever but if the girl doesn't find you attractive then you'll always just be a friend. You should just be yourself and the right person will eventually come along.
good luck with whatever you decide to do:)
I think what you want to do is increase your confidence level, not be a jerk. Most of the time, girls are attracted to so called 'jerks' because they give off a confident aura, which keeps them coming for more.
Personally, I find nice guys the sweetest, cutest people ever, but I guess in your case, the girls just don't roll that way.
Maybe you should incorporate some allure into how you talk with them. Winks, and those 'looks' always help. Keep it interesting, and don't go full out sweet; turn the mystery level on and keep them guessing.
Good luck!
please don't trust me its all good to play hard to get but becoming a jerk its a lot different. Bad boys are a turn on for some girls but being a rude, arrogant, self absorbed pig is a big turnoff. Girls don't want to feel like shit from the guy they like its the worst thing to feel. But the best feeling is not knowing what to expect from a guy. And also remember however you act is going to bring the girls like that to you... do u want a jerk girlfriend... i doubt it
hope it helped a little xoxo
Girls will tell you that you should not, but it's not true. If you want girls to look at you, you must go to gym and gain muscle. At least abs and a chest. Then, you must have money, if lots of them, better... Like use Vans or Doctor Martens boots, expensive stuff. They say what matters is the inside, while good guys like me and you never get any girl. They care 60% about phisics, 30% about the inside and 10% about money. Of course, it's not all of them, but pretty sure it's 90% of girls nowadays. Good luck there.
You can't be nice and expect to get a girl just because you're nice. Looks, height, muscle, money, etc comes in factor too for girls. Those bad boys had at least one of these attractive traits to catch a girl's attention. Personality only matters if you're already either good looking, tall, muscular, rich, etc.
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Be yourself. The kind of women that like jerks are insecure and eventually realise they have issues. Therefore, you are wasting your time with them, for obvious reasons. Be yourself, be patient - and the right girl will appear!
Should I become a jerk, and if yes, how do I do it?
Act normal.:)Girls are gonna tell you you shouldn't... What an irony...
Working out will get a guy more attention from the girls he wants it from than being a jerk.
Don't change trust me. It'll all be worse. Girls don't often like bad guys. They like funny guys that aren't mean. Be yourself!
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