I've really grown to hate being a nice guy, I'm completely sick of it. I'm sick of everyone expecting me to all nice and kind all the time even though they treat me like shit. Even worse are girls. I'm fed up with how they think it's okay to treat guys like crap , yet it's wrong for guys to call them out on it. Seriously, it's so unfair, they get to whine and complain about rejection and d-bags but guys have act like f*cking robots? And their justifications are even worse, so, we're manipulative for showing kindness to someone we like? First off, you don't know if they're nice to everyone, second, you're honestly telling me you want and expect to be treated like shit, because, apparently that's "honest". And then, you reject us for dicks that just want to "pump and dump", but we're the real "winners" in the end because you love us when you're 40, want to settle down, and have kids with your douchebag absentee boyfriend. Oh, and it gets better, then you wonder how we end up so f*cking bitter, well, you try being rejected 10 times a day in favor of someone that'll just f*ck and run, or rather, have the girl you love choose the douchebag that nobody likes anyway. Oh yeah, and we're wrong for not being f*cking asexual, we're wrong for wanting to be with the girl we like, because we're the real douchebags, we should be happy with our shitty situation, how insane is that? Well, you know what, f*ck that. F*ck everyone, f*ck dating, f*ck love, and f*ck life, it's all stupid, and over complicated. It's not in my nature to not care about people, to just get what I want disregarding a girl's feelings and then discarding them, that's not me, never has been, never will be, and if I have to suffer for it than f*ck love and f*ck life, screw it there's just no point.
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Totally understand what you are going through. Keep being nice, but stop being helpful. People ask you for help.. First thing you do is ask what you'll get in return. Never ever help selflessly, unless it's true help like a friend is stuck a remote place at 2 am in the night. Be nice and learn to reject. Girl asks you to buy her a cake, tell her to buy you a pizza in return. If she refuses, you refuse too. Even i hated being a nice guy, i always got treated like shit and friendzoned. But i kept being nice but stopped being helpful. And i see how differently girls act. Dont be rude or asshole, just be on the same page as her.. Never do an inch more for her than she does for you and trust me, she'll fall for you in 2-3 months. Same goes for everyone else. Stop being a pushover. And help those people selflessly who can't repay you back, like old ones and handicapped. Within weeks you'll see the difference. Just one sentence you have to learn ' what do i get in return?' and it will change your life.. Trust me. Be extremely polite in refusing to do a favour.0