Okay, so I dated this guy for a little over a month and he broke up with me. Im a virgin and he was the first guy I did anything with and he told me he wanted to have sex and I said no im not ready and shortly after that he broke up with me.
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Be upfront with men. If you tell them from day one that you are a virgin, that you will not have sex with them any time soon, and that they should pursue some other woman if they do not want to wait. By being upfront this way, you can avoid wasting time on men who are not suited to you. If you had done that here, then you would have saved a little over a month, which is plenty of time to attract a man who is better suited to you. With that said, you would do well not to have sex with men just to keep relationships going. That practically never works out in the woman's favor. Don't let anyone pressure, coerce, extort, blackmail, or otherwise manipulate you into having sex with them. Only have sex when you are ready.1