So been working in the hospital all summer, met a med student a few weeks ago. We are seeing each other, its not serious, and I don't know where it is going! BUt I do know I want to find out. I like him because he's so much mature and and caring, then every other guy ever! He makes me laugh, and makes me feel amazing. We may not work and that's fine, but like I said he's worth finding out. He told me he wouldn't see anyone else until he figures us out.
On the floor I work on I made one casual comment about him. Not knowing that it was too a guy who had a crush on me! While somehow that lead to this massive rumor I choose to believe about him seeing someone else, and 'using' me. I replied back that I had doubts because he was so sweet, but I would talk to him about it. The guy who told me talked to his friends about this, which lead to several people talking to him about it! He asked me to keep it to myself because we are just seeing each other... and I explained that I dind't really say much and he said I am sure you didn't.
I feel awful that he even had to explain anything to his friends! I don't like attention, and have no problem keeping things quiet. I just thought I was. How do I show him I care, and that I am sorry I started drama?
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Just explain to him that it was the guy who had a crush on you who did this and not you. Problem solved. Now he won't blame you for what happened. And things like this die down over time so I would just ignore it for now until he has forgotten about it.0