I've gained a lot of weight throughout the past year due to grief and stress eating. Someone very close to me passed and unfortunately I turned to food to deal with stress and now I'm quite overweight.
I've been thinking about getting back into the dating field but I'm a little nervous. I know being fat automatically makes it harder to find men, but exactly how difficult?
(Yes, I am actively trying to get in shape. I go jogging every morning before class and keep a food journal).
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In my experience guys love thick girls. It's more about your personality and confidence. I'm 200 lbs and have no problem getting what I want. I recently got divorced and have had no problem in that department. I'm with a really hot guy now that thinks my body is perfect and guys hit on me all the time. Just try flirting with some guys and see how it goes. Never be ashamed of your body and talk poorly about yourself in front of guys they hate it! Act like your shit is the best! And don't be afraid to get butt naked lol if a guy wants to sleep with you he wants to see every inch of you! Only guys with small penis has problems with thick girls. If the guy is blessed down stairs they will love a thick girl because it feels a lot better.1