I'm pretty much anything but a bad boy. I can be aggressive in a bedroom, and I have plenty of ambition. Hiking and going to concerts and clubs, swimming, gaming, and cooking are frequent activities. Still, girls seem to lose interest in me. Usually they lose interest right as I fall for them. So, after much reading, I'm starting to think I might have better luck if I work on a "bad boy" image. (Girls like drama, right?) Maybe... shoot. Ahh. hmm.
Maybe have a random argument for no reason?
Fake an emotional issue?
Flirt with all kinds of girls all the time?
Try to look meaner?
Surely there's a way to still be interesting without being a "bad boy". Surely girls want more than just "danger". They want excitement. Adrenaline. Right? So is it possible to get that without crossing over to the dark side?
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Bad boys have driven me up the wall. Sure, they might be a catch in the beginning because they're generally all full of confidence and "know" how to charm a girl. In the long run, I end up obsessing and wondering what the hell went wrong. All too often, I've been played by the bad boys. Please don't change who you are. Sure, bad boys may pick up more girls in the beginning, but ultimately us girls like your kind.1