Ok so I am in 32 and there's this girl I work with that is 21 and who has a BF. I am attracted to her and had romantic intentions with her.
I got her number from her because she smokes weed and I told her I lost my supplier. Anyway.. I never texted or called her about that. I wanted her # because she is quite attractive and really shy and nice. So we started texting personal stuff and after about two weeks of bs-ing and me telling her that she's hot, has a nice ass, asking her for a picture... yada yada.. She tells me that she has broken up with her BF.
So naturally I'm thinking SWEEEEET! (finally!)
So the next day I was texting her but she wasn't responding all day and finally I asked her if is she was fighting with him and if so why? Why do you care when you guys are split? She then feeds me some crap saying that he broke up with her. So then I said, but aren't you interested in me? And she starts going on this "I thought we were friends crap.." And then tells me she isn't interested in me in that way. So I feel like I wasted time with this lady and that she lead me on.
Really? I'm single, I'm good looking, I'm 32, and I'm a guy. What makes you think I want to be your friend? Besides, you have a BF but you are communicating with me. That tells me that you are OBVIOUSLY BORED with your LAME ASS BOYFRIEND. Right guys?
Come on ladies, get real. If a guy comments your body, asks you for a pic, and gives you a flower.. HE CLEARLY HAS ROMANTIC INTENTIONS!! What are you thoughts?
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well, she is 21... what do you expect? far too young for you. Many girls at that age (including me back then) still believe naively in this friend thing between men and women. If she had issues with her bf, most probably she enjoyed the attention you gave her.
but according to your story, she must be a rather slow thinker... too much weed perhaps?2