Height, race, intelligence, social status, personality, etc.
What makes you sold on a guy when he asks you out?
- LooksVote A
- MoneyVote B
- A lot of things in commonVote C
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Good intelligence and dominance first and foremost.
I'm of average intelligence, but I know so many people I can walk circles around intellectually. I'm not aggressive in relationships and I like to surrender leadership to the guy I'm dating. But if that relationship comes down to him repeatedly coming back to me for advice, and begging for my approval, I just feel like a puppet master. =/
Second is earning. I don't need a rich man, I need a man I can start a family with. I want kids and I want to raise them myself. And those cost money. Just like I would reject a guy who is sterile, I would reject a guy who will never be able to afford a family.
Third is mental and physical health. Addicts, sociopaths and all brands of psychotics need to stay away from me. Same guys for guys who don't care for themselves physically. I don't mind a guy who has some fat for example, but I won't date a fat guy.
Weirdly enough, I don't care for looks one bit. I won't refuse a hot guy, but guys I really found attractive in the past would objectively be far from "attractive" by social standards, and no one believed me when I told them who I found attractive. I'm starting to think I may have a fetish of some sort. =/2