i like this girl so much, well not as much as i liked her in the last 2 weeks because of her behavior. Everything was good until she started playing hard to get by pretending to be busy, not replying to my text or taking calls. I decided to forget about her and never contacted her again then after two weeks she sent me text and a voice message explaining reasons why she is being so scarce, i did not reply. after 3day she tried more by uploading a drawing i made for her on Facebook then called me later that night to check on me. i told her i forgot to reply to her text then we had a good little chat over the phone. I did not text her until she started it by asking me for directions to where she was going and i helped her. Then yesterday i texted her and she hasn't replied till now so im thinking should i just tell her to fuck off if she tries to get my attention? coz it looks like she is an attention freak. im planning to tell her "i think your behaviour is Ho, so its either you stop it on me or you fuck off for good coz its childish" do you think its gonna change things?
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Never allow someone to dictate how you feel and if this does happen, never break attention to the fact they have unsettled your frame and knocked you off your rhythm. What you need to do is delete her number, get rid of her social media connections with you and move on.
You did good initially by going no contact but then you faltered and fell back into communication. People don't seem to understand no contact. No contact is there to be used when you are so sick of a particular person that you cut them off indefinitely. It's not a tool to be used to try and get back at someone or get their attention or trying to get them to alter their behaviour.
It's a simple "get out of life and stay out of it for good".5