I have boundaries. If I ever get a girlfriend, she will be known of them instantly. Boundary 1: She can't live with me, I prefer living by myself with my dog. She can ask to move in, but my answer will always be no. My apartment is mine. Boundary 2: Don't leave your stuff at my apartment. She can spend the night, but take your stuff with you once you leave. Boundary 3: Marriage is off the table. I have no intentions of getting married, I will let her know this. Do you have boundaries in dating?
Do you have boundaries in dating?
What Girls Said 8
you sound like a typical child. this is the reason women date men and not boys :)
if you get a gf she will be super insecure and clueless ~ no woman of any value or beauty would give a crap about your little boy boundary's... if your amazing and rich and have a great family and you marry her, then she will obey your new silly list. but before that your just one of 100 000 guys that would kill for a good gf.
women have all the choices, we are the beauty and the fruit of nature .. there must be at least 1 billion men in the world who would cut of one nut just to spend a night with me, and I'm nothing special at all. I think you need perspective , because any guy who lives in an apartment is like a step way down from a fat girl who lives in a trailer and doesn't bath. :P
I think what you need is lots of cash to buy a girlfriend for the hour ^^0
Okay: don't smoke (ANYTHING), don't make a mess, don't leave your underwear anywhere, if you don't know how - DON'T try to cook.1
Those aren't bad boundaries, but they do make you sound like you are a player because you don't want her stuff left in your house for other people to see. Personal space is key, I wouldn't want my partners living in my apartment with me because its my space and I need me time and its hard with someone there with you every second of the day. Yes to over nights but I wouldn't make them take everything with them when they left, I would make a drawer for stuff that they could leave, like a pair or 2 of extra clothes, toothbrush razors hair stuff whatever they would leave at a house, but I wouldn't want my girl to leave her bobby pins or elastics or her hair all over my bathroom same with guys too. Marriage is completely normal because not everybody wants to get married. But all these boundaries at the beginning of a relationship are a little ridiculous because on the first date you wouldn't talk about marriage or living situations or anything until you're more comfortable with your partner or further into the relationship.0
You must be a teacher and think of your gf as your student lol..2
What Guys Said 1
I certainly have a few, the most important being No smoking in my apartment but that goes to all my visitors. Anyway its good that you're clear about your boundaries from the beginning.0
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