Soo I honestly don't know how to talk to guys at all. I'm really awkward and weird. I don't know how to flirt or get their numbers--nothing. I'm just quiet and sit there sort of fangirling over how cute they are.
I haven't flirted or been really social with guys since I was 14. Around that time, I started dating this guy for about three years and then it ended badly at 18. I'm currently 19, and turn 20 this December. I just want to know how to talk to guys again because I've pretty much forgotten. Hahaha.
ALSO. Please don't give me some high school crap like "poking" them or taking their hats. I want serious adult flirting advice. :cc Please help. I just want to know so when the time comes, I will get an A on the flirting exam.
But to ladies, how do you talk to guys? And gentlemen, how should a girl properly flirt?
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Don't try too hard. I'm sure you've heard this a million times, but... be yourself! Don't try to be someone else. because once you've been with a guy for years he will know all about you and you will still be the same girl he dated.
I believe that people have different tastes and being yourself creates the right interest to other guys. Wear what you like to wear, put however much makeup as you want, stuff your face with nutella and guys will love it. Dating has no strict guideline, so there is no grading on the flirting exam.
I've had a hard time with some people and trying to force yourself to talk won't help. And then I met someone who I could talk to for ages! It really just comes down to the other person. Once you meet him, you will definitely know.1