There's this girl that is my best/closest friend but I also kind of want to date her. I don't think that she wants to date me & if we do date each other then I wouldn't want something to happen that would make it awkward for us to be friends if we broke up. I feel like if I made the first move but she didn't want to date me it would be really awkward & possibly change our friendship (for the worse). What should I do? Should I wait for her to make the first move or what?
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For me, the best option is to be honest, but not scary honest; Just say something like "you know, maybe we should go on a date! Can I take to the movies or something?" If she says no, dont act like nothing happened, accept the facts as it is, and say "ok, so how about calling all the gang and see a movie?" That will show that you want to remain friends. I won't lie, there will be some awkwardness, but dont run away from it.1
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