So i have joined some dating site and a lot (mostly) older guys have sent me a message. I have never met any of the guys there, mostly because it never reaches the point where we even talked about going on a date. I think i have talked to one guy where we exchanged skype, so we chatted there for maybe 2- weeks. But he was almost 40 and lived in a other city. That is the how far i have ever gone with a guy on a dating site.
What happens most often is that i lose interest or they lose interest, and we stop responding each other, but i don't know how to fix it? Its i seem to fail at meeting guys online and irl...
So have any of you acctually met and gotten a boyfriend/girlfriend out of it? And what o i do wrong? am i really that boring? I feel like i say or do the wrong things that put guys off, but i have no idea what i'm saying or doing... I know that looks are not the main issue, so what could it be?
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I have been to a wedding where they met online and I know another girl who married off of match.
I have met a number of girls online. Here's the thing. These are personal recommendations others may disagree with.
1. If the guy looks like someone you want to meet... meet him in person. Drop all these endless bs emails. You will not ever get to "know someone" through email. It'll just end up causing you to get a misrepresented idea of the person. Most of these people are socially awkward. So you'll email and "feel close" and spend weeks "getting to know each other." Then you meet and he's the exact opposite as to what you thought he was.
2. Keep the messages short but not too short and that's it. Limit how many messages you go through and just exchange numbers for an in person meet and suggest a quick public area like coffee and actually chat! Coffee's easy because there's an easy escape, it's public, and you can talk.
3. When deciding whether or not to reply, examine the profile from top to bottom. If there's face only photos or you suspect any lies like his age or height, just don't reply. As a female you're getting messages regularly assuming you're not overweight.0