Essentially the question. How can I tell when a guy is really truly interested in me, and not just saying things to make me think he is?
I feel like players come on really strong in the beginning to make the girl feel liked and special and I've fallen victim to this before.
The good ones are really convincing! At least to me.
How can I tell when a guy is really Into me and looking to date me seriously, rather than just telling me lies to build my trust and get me into bed?
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"I feel like players come on really strong in the beginning to make the girl feel liked and special" That is exactly what they do. They are often so cheesy it is hard to understand how any girl could even fall for it.
It isn't about what the guy says. It is about the man's actions. What does he do to show you he cares about you, and makes you a priority in his life.1