It's a serious relationship and things used to be great, but now that it just became difficult.
On a night out, he talked to a girl a lot, and in the end that girl put her hand into his coat and hold his hand, he let it happened. He said that the girl is attractive and so everything was just natural. But it was very plain, it's different from how it was with me.
And later, he talked to a mutual friend of ours that he has a massive crush on a very sexy girl. Actually I remember he had her picture as his phone background even after we started dating for a month. He changed it into a photo of mine only after his phone was lost and he got a new one. But he still checks out that girl's picture on instragram.
Then he started texting a female friend everyday, even at night and when he is with me. He even flirts with her a lot in front of me. So once he flirted with her in front of me again, and I got very upset so we had a big fight, and after that, he started to be distant, refuses to see me, saying he needs time being alone.
I thought he was enjoying his time alone but he's hanging out with a girl and hiding it from me. One day I called him he got very nervous, and told me he's by himself while he was actually with a girl alone. And I found out that he'd been out with her alone a few times and lied to me he barely had contact with her.
Yesterday I talked to him about this via text, he said he's done nothing wrong and I'm overreacting. He refuses to see me even though I might be pregnant. Later I did a pregnant test it was negative, I felt extremely nervous and upset when I did that test, he just told me he felt sorry that I had to go through this, but he's proud of me, but didn't ask to see me.
I'm not sure, am I being to patty or should I really reconsider this relationship?
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inquisitivemale is right. Why are you letting this guy jerk you around. He apparently doesn't care what you think or feel. There is being friends with people, then there is flirting with people like that. Also if you say hey I dont like that, and he blows it off, that means he isn't at all interested in your opinion and he thinks he is doing you a favor being with you. He is not exactly running around behind your back, but if he is hanging out with other girls and not telling you then that would be the last straw for me. Get rid of this idiot, find someone who wants you.0