I've been scared of my first kiss for ages and I dont want to freak out when it happens. Want to knowif it is scary
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Well, it's nothing to be scared of, flowemma.
I can understand your feelings of anxiety about it, but here's the thing and I hope this will help. I think you'll find that when it's behind you, you'll wonder why you were so scared in the first place, and this applies to so much more in life. First time you rode a bike without training wheels? Yeah, it's a bit scary, but when you get past it you wonder why it was scary at all.
It's not like guys have a kissing experience detector. We can't just somehow "know" it's her first time. There's no alarm that will sound. Since the guy you decide to grace with a kiss is likely your age, it's possible he's just as inexperienced and maybe even as nervous as you.
So when you grace some lucky guy with your first kiss (and that day is coming, dearheart), just know that if he's into you then he won't mind if it isn't perfect, and you'll wonder why you were scared in the first place.0