My cousin is successful with women. We both go to the same college. Usually, he observes women while me on the other hand is shy and oblivious to them.
My cousin told me: "So many women look at you and you look like you could care less. It frustrates women when they look at a man and he doesn't make a move."
I told him: "They're not looking at me, they want the guy behind me. Besides a woman looking at me doesn't mean she wants me to approach her."
My cousin said: "Don't think like that, I understand you're shy and don't have much experience with women. But if she looks at you, go for it. You'll be surprised at which women like you."
I thought women looked at me because I'm ugly as hell. Is he right?
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I hate it when cute guys think they're ugly. I've seen guys like you, they barely got female friends, just hangout with their male buddies, if you talk to them he's not necessarily rude but you can tell he's shy.
Just man up and approach women. It is rare that others stare at you cause you're ugly.1