I'm sorry this is really long, but if you read it and answer, I will be incredibly grateful.
At the beginning of summer, I asked a friend who I like a lot if she'd ever want to go out sometime in fall when I got back. At the time, she said she'd say yes to a date in fall if nothing changes over the summer.
Over the summer, I saw her once in a group of friends when I came to visit. It was the middle of summer so I didn't really try to flirt or anything and we were completely cool as friends for the day.
Now its fall. I just moved into my new place yesterday. She was trying to get a group of people to go out last night, but people didn't want to. My roommate told me plans were just canceled, so I just stayed in. In texting her, she said she was having people over to her place, but didn't tell me when or that I was invited. This morning I got a text saying she was really sorry and that my roommate was supposed to tell me I had been invited to come.
During the day, I did my ice bucket challenge and nominated my former roommates (her included). I was texting her at the time and sent her a "BTW, sorry" text referring to the nomination. She texted back "You don't need to apologize for anything", referring to me asking her out, presumably. I pointed out she should check Facebook and we moved on to talking about the challenge.
Earlier, after she had apologized about not inviting me the night before, she mentioned she was getting a group to play trivia tonight. We met up for that in a group of like 8 friends and all drank and played and had a good time. That being said, I was sitting right next to her for half of it and again, we acted completely as friends, but we were also with all our friends so it would have seemed really weird to have been flirting there.
So, what do you think? Does it sound like she's still interested that she was saying I don't need to apologize? OR does she just want to put this behind us and be friends? Or something else entirely
Most Helpful Girl
Try to flirt. She may still be interested but since you were the one who initially did the asking, you should ask again. Just try it out: "Did you still want to go out sometime just the two of us?" Or "It's really nice hanging out as a group, but would you like to try some time just us?"0