Let me start off by saying she isn't morbidly obese or anything. She looks to be about a size 14, so she's just overweight.
Anyways, I have this friend who's overweight yet she seems to have no problem getting guys. And no, she doesn't date other overweight or unattractive men. She gets with guys that pretty much any woman would find attractive. Right now she's currently dating a very cute and fit guy (tennis player and a swimmer) and they seem happier than ever. He's totally faithful to her and even turned down a super tiny cheerleader when she was throwing herself at him.
I'm happy for her, it's just really confusing to me. Growing up, I was always told that a good personality would never make up for being fat in most guy's eyes, yet my friend seems to disprove this theory.
I guess I'm just wondering why this might be?
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She must know how to talk to a guy. And I would assume that she is pretty good at making them feel good and not just physically but emotionally to.
Most women think that men can be hooked by sex and stroking their ego. But then they end up in bad relationships. But a girl that really knows what she is doing will know how to really make their man feel safe and protected emotionally. Once he feels she wouldn't hurt him then he is hooked. So girls that are good at that will score a lot with men and have them stick by their side.4