So, I've just started to date this amazing guy. He's anything I've ever dreamed of! He said me 'I'm really starting to like you', whatever that means, and that he's dreamed about a girl like me.
But I've screwed up every time in my previous relationships and pushed the guys away. I don't wanna do that again! So could you please tell me what do you think is most important in the beginning of a relationship? What kind of behavior is turn off, what do you appreciate?
I try to act in the way that I don't show my interest too much, I don't wanna see too eager or too needy. But I really don't know how to act "in between", because then I can end up being too cold?
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What you can do to help yourself is don't give your heart away too quickly you just started dating him. You're still getting to know the guy so try to not think of him as your "soul mate" if it is still early. Its good to be excited but don't put yourself in a vulnerable position early on.
*This might sound odd but don't give this person all of your attention, you say you just started dating him so I don't know how long that means but its cool he is a dream guy but he is still a guy.
As far as what you can do for him. I would just say don't play games, be straight forward, and considerate of him. I can't tell your age but if you two are working and in school then its nice to know if a girl understands that and doesn't try to contact you when you're busy. Also not playing games and being straight forward, shows you're honest about your intentions and liking him. Its not the same as being "clingy". Honesty demonstrates a person has maturity and is someone you can trust which will make the guy more open.1