Did I cheat on her? Should I tell her what happened?
So I was at work and was talking to a girl all night, she made it clear from the start she wanted sex but I said I had girlfriend. She didn't stop but was harmless and actually quite funny, she was flirty with most people and so I didn't think too much into it. We talked about our lives and we got on well, she talked about deep issues and i listen.
But as the night went on she was messaging me over Facebook and it came down to she sees my relationship as likely ending at some point (due to a discussion we had where I confided in her i wasn't totally happy with certain aspects) and she was offering herself. I refuse and my work closed we hugged she left, fine.
I saw her walking home and we ending up talking outside for a good hour and half, we were sitting down and my hand was between her leg and mine and she moved herself and sat on it. I lost all control and felt her butt, nothing casual it was a full on grope. Now I had to intention of sleeping with her or even kissing or anything more than I did. Does this count as cheating? Should I tell my gf?
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I consider it a close save, tell your girlfriend what happened, you need to get your moral compass to point back to true north. If your girlfriend hears it from you, things will go much more smoothly than if she found out from someone else. Literally man up to your mistake-could-have-turned-into-a-bigger-mistake. And bro, cut the temptation off. Just cut this person off from your life, no more personal talks, just strictly buisness4
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