O. K guys and girls, you can all response,,, Girls let me know what you think also.
is it possible for a man 47 years old to be inlove or so he claimed but because of sorting things out financially on his side not call the woman he claimed he loved so dearly I one month, someone he wanted to grow old with etc. tell me as i am at a lost.
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Guys are expected to be 'Providers' and make a home, and 'protect' women that they love. It is in our DNA, and the way we are. If he is having financial issues, he is having self-esteem issues, and probably physical issues, sexually. It is part of who we are. Like it, or hate it, it is part of being a 'man', now.
If he is avoiding you, based on what you said, he is probably terrified that you will think he is a failure, having money issues.
It may not seem rational, or whatever, but providing a home, a solid income, and 'providing' for a wife/girlfriend and children is part of what makes a man, a MAN.
He is probably embarrassed, not feeling like a 'MAN', having issues that we are supposed to 'Know' how to deal with.
Sadly, I can't tell you to just call him, and tell him it is ok. It is male pride, and he has to work it out.
You can try to talk to him, and tell him that he can trust you, and you want to help, and you love him, but it is a 'crap shoot' if he will respond, depending on how deep he is, with his financial issues.
I wish I could give you a solution, but maybe just understanding his POV can help you... .0