Okay so yea basically I have been seeing this guy for a while and he is so sweet and funny and we get along great. He tells me almost everything about himself and always says how wonderful it is we trust each other. But I have been hiding my eating disorder from him. I have been anorexic/bulimic for about three years now and have been seeing doctors for it and all so please don't make this a "seek help" type deal because i am seeking the help i need and want to recover. The only worry I have is how to tell my bf and how he will react.
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If it were me that you were dating... I would like to believe that we tell each other everything because the relationship is new. If there was something which might question the future of the relationship, I would want to know because I would be investing in the relationship, so it grows and lasts a long time.
I could accept that you held back for a short while, but the longer you left it, the more I would question about why you took so long to tell... and the longer you took, the more I would wonder if you trusted me... so delay is ok but not for to long.
Then if the man is going to end the relationship and your eating disorder was the reason, I think you are better off letting him go.0