As a girl I tend to always want the guy I'm with to be sweet and loving and tell me sweet things but feel like for a guy it isn't something they need to do all the time. Am I right?
I was wondering if guys like being romantic or like telling their gf's sweet things all the time?
What Guys Said 7
I actually have to stop myself from being too sweet all the time or else calling my girlfriend "beautiful" will lose meaning after a while (at least how I feel).
A man should definitely put his woman on a pedestal but make sure not to put her too high on it otherwise it becomes weak.1
I fancy myself a hopeless romantic and do stuff only often read about like doing painting, poetry, romantic dinners ect. But I save that kind if stuff for when the relationship is serious and she's in it for the long haul. Unless she asks specifically to be that way early on.1
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Most guys will think it's not 'manly' to sweet talk, or talk really often. Too bad, imao.1
I like to be sweet, but I need it too. Otherwise I start to feel it's not reciprocated. Or, that what I do isn't really appreciated. After a while, it's going to make me want to stop doing those things. It should be give and take.1
Being sweet and romantic is good time to time but overdoing it will cause it to lose value and eventually the words themselves lose meaning. Better to do it occasionally and have your girlfriend look forward to those special times when you are sweet and romantic. Gives it more meaning and something to look forward to.1
No, we can't do it constantly, but most guys do like to do it some of the time. It is nice to see a girl smile when she is touched by something we do.1
I'd definitely want to be 'sweet' to my girlfriend a lot, although its practically not possible to do that 'all the time' (because I do have a professional life and family members too).
Anyway, this might just remain a distant dream because I'm apparently not good enough to date, from the perspective of women.1
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What Girls Said 1
They aren't obligated, but they should do it anyway.1
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