I have been seeing him for past 2 months and he said he likes me but confused so he said lets be friends and see how future looks. So we met 3 days ago and he said he wants to be more and today again he said he see me no more than just friends.. i called it quits.. I don't know if i made a good move? i was down to getting to know him and see about the future but now he just strictly wants to be friends but i have feelings for him and i can't see him as just friends.. what am i doing wrong (if i am )? what should i do? now that i said i dont wanna be friends he said no no please stay just talk less but please stay i said no and i deleted him off everywhere... am i being harsh and selfish? i just dont wanna be hurt i have feelings for him and i really like him i have told this to him and he just keeps saying i am confused and i dont wanna force him then he says he likes me? please help me understand this?
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Being he has been this fickle pickle over the past few months, Not being able to make up his mind if he wants to be 'Friends Or---More, I see a set pattern this guy has started with you, and to put it bluntly it's Mind boggling, to say the least, sweetie.
He will Continue his flow, of Let's Go, then No, Slow, and have you and your heart and mind in a tither all the time. He says one thing Today, Does something else of another animal tomorrow, and you can't trust what it Could Ever be. And even now------Lets be friends and see how future looks.
No, you are Not being 'Harsh and selfish,' but being on guard with your Own tender heart, and you were Wise and----Made a good move.
And being you want More than he does, it's Not You who is 'Confused.' He may want to Continue the road paved to 'Friendzone, and perhaps Nothing would ever come out of it.
This zebra may never change his stripes, and with the way you feel, the 'Future' that You Really want, it's better to Move on, for if you stayed you would only be hurt, and for that---------I deleted him off everywhere.
There is someone out there who wants what you Want. This one is Not ready, changes his mind, and may even end up just wanting a friends with benefits down the line.
Good luck. xx0