You can't have it both.
Sure you can DEMAND both but that doesn't mean you should or will get it.
Chivalry was something done for women when they were considered incapable of doing things by themselves.
Nowadays that thing no longer applies.
- EqualityVote A
- ChivalryVote B
- I am an entitled hypocrite and i want both!Vote C
- I'm a guy and i want to laugh at the resultsVote D
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Some women do want equality then you got those nutcases out there who do feel that way. I honestly do see that double standard yes.
I've had dinner paid for by a girl, and offers to pay for my coffee. I've also had the door held open for me yes. It's not as "red carpet rolled out" as "holding the door open" sounds. It's just common courtesy.
All you gotta do to protect yourself from the hypocrites who want "both" is to keep your dates simple and these parasites have no power. I'm sure that girl they're trying to give a reality show to that wants to "date at every restaurant" paid for will still find unsuspecting victims, but just keep money outta the question and these gold diggers will have no one to go after overtime and these girls end up with a shit reputation.
For me personally, I never get gold dug by these hypocrites because if she won't meet me for a cup of coffee, chances are she wanted a free meal yes. Keeping in line with a good set of standards will leave these hypocrites dry and lonely and they'll either stay single forever, or decide to become an adult.3