A few months ago I (21yo) met this girl (20yo) via mutual friends and in July i asked her out on a date, first time i ever did by the way ;)
So she said yes, we had an incredible first date and we ended up having a second date two days later.
We talked that night about dating, she told me she never had a boyfriend and she asked me continue dating for the time being and to go slow.
I agreed to take it slow and said i had never dated before either. No kissing both times
Because of vacation and studying for some exams we only had one official date since then a month later.
I tried to kiss her in the car after hanging out with some friends but she didn't get my signals so i ended up kissing half of her mouth. Blame my lack of experience ;)
On the last official date, a month ago, i didn't dare to kiss her because of my last kissing failure.
During those weeks we were apart, we texted daily, i initiated the texts every other day. I made her laugh a lot, she started saying good night with an x at the end.
Until last sunday, she suddenly stopped signing with an x at the end and she became more distant. I asked her this Friday if the daily texting hadn't been too much for her and she said no and we talked for a few minutes before our friends arrived.
That night however, she mostly talked to her best female friend she hadn't seen in a long time.
Am i overthinking this too much?
Remember that this is my and her first dating experience, so i knew things were going to be difficult a times.
We only had 3 official dates, and with friends it's always awkward so it doesn't count as a date to me.
Did i make her lose interest and is there any way to fix my mistakes? I'm actually afraid to text her again..
Thanks in advance for any suggestions!
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I don't know. Maybe she's getting overwhelmed even though she likes you. I had a similar experience with my first boyfriend in high school (senior year). I really liked him and was excited to be dating him but I called it off because it was too much too soon. It could be a similar case. She could be trying to back off because she thinks it's moving too fast. I ended up getting back with him a week later and we dated for a year and eight months before he broke up with me before sophomore year in college.0