I used to be very overweight a few years ago but I lost all the weight to the point where I am a healthy weight. I personally can't date an overweight girl because I don't find them attractive. Friends that are girls tell me that I'm shallow and hypocritical because I used to be overweight myself. Am I being hypocritical or shallow?
- You're shallowVote A
- You're not shallowVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Besides health reasons, why else do we lose weight? To attract the opposite sex. And the opposite sex you want to attract is whatever you find attractive. I don't bust my booty in the gym and eat the way I do so that I can prove how non-shallow I am by dating guys I don't find attractive. They don't have to be perfect, I'm not either. But I'm attracted to guys who work out and have a lean, more muscular shape. So if I attract them too, that's who I'm going to date.
If I met a chubby guy who totally got my attention, I'd date him too. But the point is, I work hard so that I have options of who I'm attracted to, not to prove anything to anybody. This isn't Walmart, I'm not an equal opportunity dater. I won't date ex convicts or psychopaths just to prove I'm not shallow either.0