I used to be very overweight a few years ago but I lost all the weight to the point where I am a healthy weight. I personally can't date an overweight girl because I don't find them attractive. Friends that are girls tell me that I'm shallow and hypocritical because I used to be overweight myself. Am I being hypocritical or shallow?
- You're shallow28% (5)11% (1)22% (6)Vote
- You're not shallow72% (13)89% (8)78% (21)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Besides health reasons, why else do we lose weight? To attract the opposite sex. And the opposite sex you want to attract is whatever you find attractive. I don't bust my booty in the gym and eat the way I do so that I can prove how non-shallow I am by dating guys I don't find attractive. They don't have to be perfect, I'm not either. But I'm attracted to guys who work out and have a lean, more muscular shape. So if I attract them too, that's who I'm going to date.
If I met a chubby guy who totally got my attention, I'd date him too. But the point is, I work hard so that I have options of who I'm attracted to, not to prove anything to anybody. This isn't Walmart, I'm not an equal opportunity dater. I won't date ex convicts or psychopaths just to prove I'm not shallow either.0