I've been talking to this guy, and he seems afraid of relationships, i asked him about it he said that he doesn't want a girl to come and take away his happiness, I mean something must have happened to his previous relationship that makes him feel that way. How do i make him loose that fear?
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That's not something you can change. This is something only he can change, and with time. Especially if he had a bad experience. Don't force him or pressure him. That will only make him want to commit even less. Also, you should probably not get into something casual with him either (like a friends with benefits type of thing). He will never want to commit to you if you give him all the perks of being in a relationship (intimacy, sex etc) without the actual commitment. Like, why would he want to pay for the ice cream if he can get it for free, you know?0